Thought of writing your own obituary?
live and let live.
You will get to know who all are your loved once and who is not, how cool would be that you will actually witness the truth like suddenly there are people searching for you, suddenly people are talking about you, calling you, and finally, you feel your existence. when you really needed someone at some point in your life nobody heard your voice, the echoes that were unnoticed.sounding insanely crazy right? like who really publishes their own obituary.I’m just giving a perspective, thought to ponder about.
Someone once said, ” One is born through the mother’s pain and die leaving others in pain”. That is, what life is, pain.
Death is a magical phenomena 1000s of people, scientists, thanatologist-the one who studies death, nobody knows what happens after death its a Mystery, and nobody will ever know.Death is a natural life process, one who is born in this universe has to die one day for some it may be too soon or for some not. People always tell don’t talk about death and I’m like why not? Is it something wrong? I might die this next second or maybe tomorrow or when I grow old. You have no control over anything and nobody will ever have. Death is inevitable.
Death is inescapable and unpredictable makes us incredibly vulnerable. You never know what happens next. Its a game of chess once lost is lost. Whatever has to happen will happen if that’s written in your fate then it will, it must. Whoever is born will die one day its mortal and nobody can stop it from happening. Our fear of dying has kept us alive centuries. It’s normal. Yet, the fear of dying does not serve our personal need for safety and if we are to live our lives, we need to release the fear altogether.
My mom always tells me the people who suffer a lot in their present life be it a wife with her alcoholic husband beating, or a poor person living an honest life in spite of all the suffering, he could steal and become rich but still, he tries to live on his own foot, or small children born without a parent, it’s not their mistake that their life is like this but life happens to them this way. It is said that they will be rewarded with much more after their death. Everything has its own time.
Why be afraid of death when you don’t know what happens after. It’s just an endless sleep.Live life to make good memories, “It’s the journey that’s important, not the getting there!” “Memories are bullets. Some whiz by and only spook you. Others tear you open and leave you in pieces.What is life without love, you live only once, so why do you fight, why are you jeopardizing someone, why are you being jealous of someone’s life, why do you have to be conceited, if you can’t do good to others then why to bad, just walk off.
Death is so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with grass above us waving and the silence. To have no to-morrow, and no yesterday. Just to forget time and live in peace.
”There is only one God and his name is Death, and there is only one thing we say to Death: ‘Not today’. Syrio Forel (Games Of Thrones)